How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why do people hate fat people so much, even people who aren't exactly supermodels themselves? It seems like such a deep, passionate hatred, like they're offended by fat people just existing. Fat people didn't do anything to them, so why hate them?

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What do you think of the 2 female 18 and 19 year-old German tourists, detained in Honolulu, strip-searched, put in green jumpsuits, placed in a holding cell and the next day deported, for the terrible crime of not pre-booking a hotel for their trip?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ NEW WOMAN - analysis ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗

Making more friends is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I took a video of my serve (60 FPS) and it took 0.4 seconds from my racket to the service line. How fast would you say my serve was?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why am I not getting any atheists to debate with? Are they scared?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What is the worst emotional pain you ever felt as an adult?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Does the pro-choice movement realise that all the money used to subside abortions can be used to subsidize daycare and other financial support for single mothers with unplanned pregnancies?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What is your review of Hartley`s High School, Kolkata?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why do narcissists devour so much sugar (candy, ice cream, donuts, etc., in huge amounts at a time)?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

China Blasts Laser 80,000 Miles to the Moon in Broad Daylight – A First in Space History! - Indian Defence Review

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Ask yourself:

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hangs out with loser friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Does not procrastinate.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.